​​Tami Roman Says She 'Offered' Her Husband the 'Opportunity' to Have a Baby with Some other Woman

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Reggie Youngblood and Tami Roman
Reggie Youngblood and Tami Roman

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Tami Roman is a forrad-thinking spouse when information technology comes to her hubby's potential desire to have children.

The Basketball Wives star, 51, stopped by The Real this calendar week and revealed that her surrogacy plans with married man Reggie Youngblood are "on suspension," since she's taking time to focus on her career.

Simply Roman also explained to hosts Garcelle Beauvais and Adrienne Bailon Houghton that she is open to the idea of Youngblood and her taking a "suspension" so that he can "go detect someone to have a kid with."

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"I experience similar I'm at a point where my career is starting to do, and reward me for all of my efforts and the time that I've been in this business, and a baby for me right now would just not be the affair to do," Roman, who already has two daughters with ex-husband Kenny Anderson, explained.

"So what I offered [Reggie] was an opportunity for united states to take a pause for a yr or two and allow him get discover someone to have a child with. And and so when he has his babe, we could get back together," she continued.

When this revelation was met with incredulous reactions from Beauvais and Houghton, Roman specified that she "would help heighten the baby, it'southward simply I don't want to accept it. I don't want to go get my eggs and all that. It'due south really more nigh him being able to have his legacy here because he's an only child and he does not take whatever children. And so it's really more than for him than it is for me."

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"I believe in coparenting," she later added, when Houghton asked if the nascency mother would be part of the moving-picture show as well. "I believe that's a very valuable part of the kid's life if the parents aren't together. You need to larn how to coparent. And and so I can be in that location and love the child as if information technology was my own."

Roman — who reunites with her The Real World: Los Angeles bandage members for The Existent World Homecoming: Los Angeles, premiering next week — besides made sure to say that while Youngblood would be allowed to procreate with one adult female extramaritally, she herself "would not entertain any other men."

"I am a 1-penis adult female so even though we would be on break I would not entertain whatever other men because that would still be my husband," she told The Real hosts. "I'm merely giving him the opportunity to go take a kid."

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As for Youngblood's reaction to this modern proposal, Roman said he didn't go for information technology.

"Simply he said, 'I don't want that. I fell in dear with you, you're the woman that I'thou going to spend the rest of my life with, and if God put me hither and I'1000 non supposed to have children, then that's what it is,' " she revealed.

She went on to say that the decision felt like "a approval and a curse," since she now felt there was a "selfish" chemical element to their human relationship.

"I really exercise want him to take children," she said. "I just tin can't exist the person to exercise that."

The Real Globe Homecoming: Los Angeles will premiere Nov. 24 on Paramount+.